Have you ever asked yourself, why do I want to be in a relationship? Why do I feel that I need a boyfriend or a girlfriend?

This book will not tell you about the benefits of being in a healthy relationship. My purpose is to get you to analyze your reasoning, to become self aware, why in the first place? Now don't get me wrong, there's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting one. This book can give you more insight into other possible reasons.

Believe it or not, there are many motives that drive us to seek out relationships. There's absolutely nothing strange or wrong with being single. Maybe I can be intimate with myself first, learning to love all of me. We are still learning to understand who we are, therefore we can not always tell who or what we genuinely want.

I had to be honest and ask myself, what is my intent? Is there a hidden agenda behind my wanting to be liked or loved? I believe that if a person has a good relationship with themselves, then the constant desire to be in a relationship would end.